5 Sure-fire Ways To Annoy Everyone Around You At A Pow Wow

5 Sure-fire Ways To Annoy Everyone Around You At A Pow Wow

5 Sure-fire Ways To Annoy Everyone Around You At A Powwow

 

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1) Show up to a Powwow in a Costume

I can’t tell you how many times I have seen someone come to a powwow in a costume, dressed as someone from the Renaissance Fair, or even in a plastic War Bonnet with a tag saying “Made in China” that they got from a Halloween shop. If you come to a Powwow, you are coming to a cultural experience, not to a Comic Convention. Always be respectful with what you choose to wear, and mindful of the people in attendance who are here to celebrate their culture.


28 Comments on “5 Sure-fire Ways To Annoy Everyone Around You At A Pow Wow”

  • Avatar for Thomas Albers

    When I attend Pow Wows, I am VERY respectful of the culture and beliefs of the participants. I am simply BLOWN AWAY by the regalia I see and how much time and effort goes into making them. I ALWAYS ask permission before taking a picture and explain I put all of them in a folder on my computer and I make a calendar every year from photos from the past year from Shutterfly (sorry for the plug) and give them as gifts to friends. I DO make sure that the ones I choose (the BEST of the BEST) are aware and offer to send them a calendar free of charge. I have not had anyone say NO (yet) and the BEST of the BEST are flattered that I chose them for my project. And, no I am NOT a professional photographer. All that have received a calendar featuring them are SO pleased and request copies for their friends and family. This makes me feel special being as I am White, but a believer in the traditional Native ways and beliefs.

  • Avatar for Joseph Red Wolf

    Joseph Red Wolf

    says:

    Beer sold at Pow Wow???? Really!! What’s next —Sun Dance???

    • Avatar for Thomas Albers

      I have NEVER been to a Pow Wow where alcohol was served. And I lived in Arizona and currently in Montana. I lost a great friend and Mentor who was a Navajo Medicine Man to alcohol. He saw something in me and showed me a LOT that I will cherish forever and being White that means a LOT to me. I will see you again my friend when the Great Spirit calls me home.

  • Avatar for Joseph tharp

    Joseph tharp

    says:

    Why would anyone allow alcohol to be sold at a Pow Wow???? It is a plague to the First Americans. I am not against alcohol but there is a common courtesy that should be followed out of sheer respect. Hearing this makes me wonder when they will try to sell it at Sundance. I am pretty sure the line will be drawn there.

  • Avatar for Little Wolf

    Little Wolf

    says:

    I have been to many powwows in my lifetime especially one held here in Wisconsin every summer.Of course they have beer stands for those wasichus who care to drink throughout the fair.This is none of my concern as to what they do.But when I observed at one point in time,a wasichu dressed in regalia sitting on a folding chair by the dance arena sucking down a pint size glass of beer. I’m sorry but these kind are the reason that they manufacturerer birth control pills.

    • Avatar for Patty Sweet

      Patty Sweet

      says:

      I thought powwows were Drug & Alcohol FREE as in Not Allowed.

  • Avatar for Andy Murphy

    About what you said concerning “costumes”, my ancestry is largely native from another continent (I’m Celtic – chiefly Gaelic). When I went to a Pow Wow recently, I wore a style of native clothing my ancestors would have worn centuries ago. My intention was for the native in me to salute the natives from this (and other) continents. Nobody viewed me askance – instead, the elders said, “Welcome home”. The only thing that happened is that upon seeing my clothing, some people incorrectly guessed my origins(this gave me the opportunity to explain that I was wearing the tartan of my ancient clan and then engage them in some pleasant dialog).

    • Avatar for Darla Hitchcock

      Darla Hitchcock

      says:

      I love this!

  • Avatar for Adrona

    Adrona

    says:

    Yes, sadly, it s a fact that ‘signs are there to be ignored’ and there are no signs in the first place. Frankly, the only way to get the public to hear and follow Pow Wow etiquette would be to assign a ‘guide’ to everyone entering at the gate.

    • Avatar for Patty Sweet

      Patty Sweet

      says:

      LOL!!

  • Avatar for Craig Apelbaum

    It’s like with any other event you go to. It’s common sense. Be courteous and respectful.
    And don’t do anything stupid. And if you follow the rules of the POW WOW. You won’t get thrown out. You’ll get to stay throughout the duration of the POW WOW.

  • Avatar for Pixie Matlis

    Pixie Matlis

    says:

    Never touch regalia without asking.
    Never approach a drum without permission.
    Show respect for the Eagle staffs and Eagle feathers on regalia ( no touching).

    • Avatar for Seth Bendfeldt

      ? What is meant by “approach a drum”.

      • Avatar for Paul G

        Paul G

        says:

        Go up to the drum and try to talk to them while they are singing.

  • Avatar for Kelly Tohannie

    Kelly Tohannie

    says:

    Another thing is when people have canopies up around the arena with other canopies behind them and they put up either a flag, shawl, or blanket and it’s blocking your view of the arena and they’ve put it up after knowing your sitting there…

    • Avatar for Patty Sweet

      Patty Sweet

      says:

      WOW! That’s VERY rude. They act like you are not there or unimportant.

  • Avatar for Jody Jennings

    Jody Jennings

    says:

    Is it Wrong to Wear a Beaded Belt, Beaded Moccasins just jeans ect @ join in the Open Dance?

  • Avatar for Karen Nakamura

    Karen Nakamura

    says:

    Or tell folks your grandmother was a Cherokee Princess.

  • Avatar for Teena

    Teena

    says:

    Now what is wrong with Stanley telling about experiencing issues relating to the topic? I do wish people would respect the Gathering and all that is involvolved

  • Avatar for SGM Bob

    SGM Bob

    says:

    You gotta be joking me — do you mean you really need to tell people these things? Have they no courtesy to begin with?

    • Avatar for bill

      bill

      says:

      No their dopey liberals that have no common sense .

      • Avatar for Lynne De Boer

        Lynne De Boer

        says:

        Bill, I love your reply to SGM Bob asking if people really need to be told these things! He’s right in that they have no courtesy whatsoever. Your reply about dopey liberals with no common sense has nailed it! They show the same ignorance/self-centeredness/lack of respect in and for almost every thing good and right and appropriate in our country. I love that they are called “cupcakes” these days. If they would pick up a book on native culture and READ it it would help, but they are just too lazy and not interested in something that doesn’t give them instant gratification. Thank you for your original reply!

        • Avatar for Big Bear

          Big Bear

          says:

          So right , now the term snowflake would apply . It’s not hard to know when to take ones hat off ie honor song .

      • Avatar for Lynn Jenkinson

        Lynn Jenkinson

        says:

        Hi Bill, Just because a person may subscribe to a particular party does not mean that person is stupid. I guarantee you that there are just as many idiot conservatives as there are liberals. Just look who voted for that pathetic giant baby in the White House who is now attacking Sacred lands that belong to Native Americans. Many Blessings.

  • Avatar for Pam

    Pam

    says:

    My biggest peeve are the people who do not remove their hats and don’t stand, and remain standing, when they are asked to. If you aren’t familiar with the protocol because you are a visitor, watch the people around you!! So disrespectful.

    • Avatar for Patty Sweet

      Patty Sweet

      says:

      What if they are disabled or in a wheelchair? Standing for long periods if you have authrytis in the knees is quite painful.

  • Avatar for Patti

    Patti

    says:

    People have taken my picture walking into a privy, then have had them take pictures as I was about to take a bite of lunch but the worst are people thrusting babies/small children into my arms. Those children/babies take one look at someone they do not know, dressed in regalia and begin to squall. I told a fellow dancer that I bet we traumatize more small kids than Santa and Bozo the clown put together

  • Avatar for Stanley

    Stanley

    says:

    Get Real…No Phonies

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