what to give a head dancer

natureluvr · 04-25-2005, 03:04 PM

Quick question regarding proper etiquette/protocol:

There is a mutual interest between myself and someone; he will be head dancer at a powwow coming up. I would like to personally give him
something prior to the start of the powwow to honor his being chosen head dancer; is this appropriate? Any suggestions as to a gift? Will he
be allowed to dance ladies choice, and will he have to dance with the head female dancer?
Thank you.

**Kiwehnzii** · 04-25-2005, 03:15 PM

Give him a kiss on the cheek and giggle.

Yes, he will have to dance with the head female dancer in the two-step and he must hold her very close and get the smell of her sweet perfume which might be very enticing. If you aren't careful, he may look into her eyes and one thing just might lead to another. Dance right behind him during this dance and give a loud "ahem!" at this time. If that doesn't work, knock her over during a turnaround.

Jus' kiddin'!

natureluvr · 04-25-2005, 03:25 PM

I do not think giggling is appropriate at my age!!!
I used to work in a prison as a correctional officer, so if any female gets out of line, I will just knock her off her feet with the defensive tactics I learned!! Pressure points are good to use! :)

natureluvr · 04-25-2005, 03:26 PM

I could always use those same tactics to have him at my mercy.............

**AngelFeather** · 04-25-2005, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by natureluvr

I could always use those same tactics to have him at my mercy.............

NOW youre talking!!! LOL

**badmaninc** · 04-28-2005, 03:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kiwehnzii

Give him a kiss on the cheek and giggle.

Yes, he will have to dance with the head female dancer in the two-step and he must hold her very close and get the smell of her sweet perfume which might be very enticing. If you aren't careful, he may look into her eyes and one thing just might lead to another. Dance right behind him during this dance and give a loud "ahem!" at this time. If that doesn't work, knock her over during a turnaround.

Jus' kiddin'!

Geez, Kiwhenzii, you were scaring me there for a sec. I thought we were going to have to take you outside to hose you down or at least send you for a cigarette dude.

**walela49** · 04-28-2005, 01:56 PM

I once got a bathroom set (trash can, soap holder, toothbrush holder, towels, etc.). I was just about to start college, so I used the heck out of it!

natureluvr · 04-28-2005, 02:50 PM

Thanks for the input, Walela. I was not sure if it was appropriate considering our mutual attraction and we are still in the getting to know you stages. I failed to mention that we are both over 35, by the way.......

I just do not want to disrespect anyone.
Thanks

**walela49** · 04-28-2005, 04:24 PM

ok, so not college aged, but a gift that is very useable for his daily life would still be nice: non-perishable foods, candles, gift certificates. Does head make his own dance clothes? How 'bout fabric or beads or something like that?

natureluvr · 04-28-2005, 04:35 PM

Yes, he makes his own clothes with the help of family and friends. I was thinking along those lines, or even making a pair of earrings for him. Thanks for the tips. I was hoping I would get a serious answer instead of the silliness, but the silliness is fun, too! Helps others not to take life so seriously............

Thanks again!

**badmaninc** · 04-29-2005, 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by natureluvr

Yes, he makes his own clothes with the help of family and friends. I was thinking along those lines, or even making a pair of earrings for him. Thanks for the tips. I was hoping I would get a serious answer instead of the silliness, but the silliness is fun, too! Helps others not to take life so seriously............

Thanks again!

So bikini briefs in a low rise mesh is prolly out eh.

natureluvr · 04-29-2005, 10:23 AM

How many 40 year old men do you see wearing those? Unfortunately too many who are trying to hold onto their youth!!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww

Lil Stinker · 04-29-2005, 09:33 PM

I am dyslexic and need help with some of my readings. My tutor had to leave early so I am on my own. So, here goes. Giving a dancer head is very personal so you really should wait until the doings are over. Okay?

**Joe's Dad** · 04-30-2005, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Lil Stinker

I am dyslexic and need help with some of my readings. My tutor had to leave early so I am on my own. So, here goes. Giving a dancer head is very personal so you really should wait until the doings are over. Okay?

I just fell out of my chair reading this!!!!!!

Another sick one!!!!

04-25-2005, 03:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	what to give a head dancer Quick question regarding proper etiquette/protocol: There is a mutual interest between myself and someone; he will be head dancer at a powwow coming up. I would like to personally give him something prior to the start of the powwow to honor his being chosen head dancer; is this appropriate? Any suggestions as to a gift? Will he be allowed to dance ladies choice, and will he have to dance with the head female dancer? Thank you.

04-25-2005, 03:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	"give him a kiss on the cheek and giggle" I do not think giggling is appropriate at my age!!! I used to work in a prison as a correctional officer, so if any female gets out of line, I will just knock her off her feet with the defensive tactics I learned!! Pressure points are good to use! :)

04-25-2005, 03:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	wait a minute............ I could always use those same tactics to have him at my mercy.............

04-28-2005, 01:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
walela49 the legal plumes lady! Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: www.walela49.com Posts: 1,160	I once got a bathroom set (trash can, soap holder, toothbrush holder, towels, etc.). I was just about to start college, so I used the heck out of it! __________________ See my trading post ads See my photo gallery See walela49's myspace page

04-28-2005, 04:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
walela49 the legal plumes lady! Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: www.walela49.com Posts: 1,160	ok, so not college aged, but a gift that is very useable for his daily life would still be nice: non-perishable foods, candles, gift certificates. Does head make his own dance clothes? How 'bout fabric or beads or something like that? __________________ See my trading post ads See my photo gallery See walela49's myspace page

04-25-2005, 03:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
Kiwehnzii Oldfart Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 2,872	Give him a kiss on the cheek and giggle. Yes, he will have to dance with the head female dancer in the two-step and he must hold her very close and get the smell of her sweet perfume which might be very enticing. If you aren't careful, he may look into her eyes and one thing just might lead to another. Dance right behind him during this dance and give a loud "ahem!" at this time. If that doesn't work, knock her over during a turnaround. Jus' kiddin'!

04-28-2005, 02:50 PM	#8 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	Thanks for the input, Walela. I was not sure if it was appropriate considering our mutual attraction and we are still in the getting to know you stages. I failed to mention that we are both over 35, by the way....... I just do not want to disrespect anyone. Thanks

04-28-2005, 04:35 PM	#10 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	Yes, he makes his own clothes with the help of family and friends. I was thinking along those lines, or even making a pair of earrings for him. Thanks for the tips. I was hoping I would get a serious answer instead of the silliness, but the silliness is fun, too! Helps others not to take life so seriously............ Thanks again!

04-29-2005, 10:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
natureluvr Teen Dancer Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you... Posts: 385	How many 40 year old men do you see wearing those? Unfortunately too many who are trying to hold onto their youth!!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww

04-29-2005, 09:33 PM	#13 (permalink)
Lil Stinker Tiny Tot Dancer Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 92	I am dyslexic and need help with some of my readings. My tutor had to leave early so I am on my own. So, here goes. Giving a dancer head is very personal so you really should wait until the doings are over. Okay?

05-01-2005, 04:55 AM	#15 (permalink)
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