missin my daddy

05-19-2004, 12:11 AM

it has been 9 months since my dad has passed away he died in a car accident an im so lonley i relyed on my dad for everything an i miss him so much cuz he was my hero an i always feel so alone even though i have my mom. somtimes i dont know wut to do or who to talk too thats y im postin this i jus wish my dad was still alive but i know i have to stay strong especially for my little girls an if its not to much to ask who ever reads this can u pray for me an my little girls

Blackbear · 05-19-2004, 03:10 AM

you got it.

Smokin' Ace · 05-19-2004, 02:15 PM

No problem at all...

**ojibwaysweetie** · 05-21-2004, 01:19 AM

You got mine, blkfthoney. *hugz*

**Kakeeya** · 05-21-2004, 04:36 PM

Blackfoothoney, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I'll remember you in my prayers. Love, prayers and hugs.

**BurBz** · 05-21-2004, 05:11 PM

awww...girl..i'm sorry to hear bout your dad!!! I know what that is surely like! Hang in there! You have your lil girls to keep you going strong! :) Prayers are endless..they will get you through anything!! :)

**ojibwaysweetie** · 05-22-2004, 11:17 AM

*hugz* to you blkfthoney. You and your daughters have my thoughts and prayers too. Pray everyday the way your elders do-there is a lot of power in our ndn prayers. :)

Kio-Manche · 05-22-2004, 01:38 PM

My condolences on your loss. I will say a prayer for you and your children.

DANCINGEAGLE · 05-24-2004, 08:06 AM

You all are definitely in my prayers. It's not easy losing someone that you love so much.

superndngyrl · 05-24-2004, 09:58 AM

sorry to hear that girlie! *hugs*

**CandaePrincess** · 05-24-2004, 11:45 AM

Your family is in my prayers girl. Stay strong and God will get you through this. It's tough, but year after year it gets a little easier. You gotta have faith!

Mato Winyan · 05-24-2004, 04:35 PM

I am so sorry.. and yeah.. you have mine too.

I lost my daddy when I was thirteen. That was 37 yrs ago. I still miss him. I'll be honest... there is always a whole that only daddy can fill... but.. I have learned how to fill it with memories. I can remember alot of the things he said. Like he always wanted me to work with my hands. He was creative and recognized that in me at an early age. He was a master carpenter so he knew the good feeling of seeing a finished project that came from your own hands. He also believed that you would never go hungry either.

I'm sure if you think. .your daddy talked to you about things that may mean more in the future if not now. These things are what you will draw strength from.

Remember when you hug your little ones that they are his legacy to you. Hug them tight and thank the creator for him being your dad and make sure they know about their grandpa. If you need to ask family about more things.. do it now before it is too late, so it can be passed on to them. That is the greatest gift you can give your children..and you and the greatest honor you can pay him .

Anytime you need to talk... I'm here if you need to.

**nt_inuk** · 05-27-2004, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~*blackfoothoney*~

its not to much to ask who ever reads this can u pray for me an my little girls

It is not to much to ask blackfoothoney, u and ur grls are in my prayers

05-19-2004, 12:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
bl@ckfoothoney Guest Posts: n/a	missin my daddy it has been 9 months since my dad has passed away he died in a car accident an im so lonley i relyed on my dad for everything an i miss him so much cuz he was my hero an i always feel so alone even though i have my mom. somtimes i dont know wut to do or who to talk too thats y im postin this i jus wish my dad was still alive but i know i have to stay strong especially for my little girls an if its not to much to ask who ever reads this can u pray for me an my little girls

05-19-2004, 03:10 AM	#2 (permalink)
Blackbear Gone Fishing Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Alaska Posts: 9,514	you got it. __________________ Don't worry that it's not good enough for anyone else to hear... just sing, sing a song. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v4...Video002-1.flv

05-19-2004, 02:15 PM	#3 (permalink)
Smokin' Ace Arena Director Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: United States Posts: 4,086	No problem at all... __________________ Everything is gonna be alright! Be blessed - got love??? This b me..... www.myspace.com/akayo

05-21-2004, 01:19 AM	#4 (permalink)
ojibwaysweetie PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Heart of the Great Lakes, Ontario Canada Posts: 4,923	You got mine, blkfthoney. hugz __________________ "Gaa wiin daa-aangoshkigaazo ahaw enaabiyaan gaa-inaabid"

05-21-2004, 05:11 PM	#6 (permalink)
BurBz Dineth Hearth Throth Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: az Posts: 13,893	awww...girl..i'm sorry to hear bout your dad!!! I know what that is surely like! Hang in there! You have your lil girls to keep you going strong! :) Prayers are endless..they will get you through anything!! :) __________________ I'm not mean, you're just a sissy! :Tongue

05-21-2004, 04:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
Kakeeya PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: By a mountain on the Rez Posts: 2,522	Blackfoothoney, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I'll remember you in my prayers. Love, prayers and hugs.

05-22-2004, 11:17 AM	#7 (permalink)
ojibwaysweetie PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Heart of the Great Lakes, Ontario Canada Posts: 4,923	hugz to you blkfthoney. You and your daughters have my thoughts and prayers too. Pray everyday the way your elders do-there is a lot of power in our ndn prayers. :) __________________ "Gaa wiin daa-aangoshkigaazo ahaw enaabiyaan gaa-inaabid"

05-22-2004, 01:38 PM	#8 (permalink)
Kio-Manche a.k.a Numunu1971 Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Ponca City, Ok. Born and Raised in Lawton Ok. Posts: 1,603	My condolences on your loss. I will say a prayer for you and your children. __________________ Kio-Manche Oklahoma Proud!!!

05-24-2004, 08:06 AM	#9 (permalink)
DANCINGEAGLE BikerBoyNDNStyle Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Where the rubber meets the road! Posts: 661	You all are definitely in my prayers. It's not easy losing someone that you love so much. __________________ Through the good times and bad times, always pray.

05-24-2004, 09:58 AM	#10 (permalink)
superndngyrl two little indians Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: in front of the computer Posts: 4,231	sorry to hear that girlie! hugs __________________ The only time its too late to start dancing is when you're dead.

05-24-2004, 11:45 AM	#11 (permalink)
CandaePrincess ......................... Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: where it's at Posts: 8,758	Your family is in my prayers girl. Stay strong and God will get you through this. It's tough, but year after year it gets a little easier. You gotta have faith! __________________ Mussy by birth.....Native by the Grace of God.......

05-24-2004, 04:35 PM	#12 (permalink)
Mato Winyan Dancing makes you smile Join Date: Mar 2000 Location: Indiana Posts: 5,477 Blog Entries: 4	I am so sorry.. and yeah.. you have mine too. I lost my daddy when I was thirteen. That was 37 yrs ago. I still miss him. I'll be honest... there is always a whole that only daddy can fill... but.. I have learned how to fill it with memories. I can remember alot of the things he said. Like he always wanted me to work with my hands. He was creative and recognized that in me at an early age. He was a master carpenter so he knew the good feeling of seeing a finished project that came from your own hands. He also believed that you would never go hungry either. I'm sure if you think. .your daddy talked to you about things that may mean more in the future if not now. These things are what you will draw strength from. Remember when you hug your little ones that they are his legacy to you. Hug them tight and thank the creator for him being your dad and make sure they know about their grandpa. If you need to ask family about more things.. do it now before it is too late, so it can be passed on to them. That is the greatest gift you can give your children..and you and the greatest honor you can pay him . Anytime you need to talk... I'm here if you need to. __________________ "We see it as a desecration not only of a mountain but of our way of life. This is a genocidal issue to us. If they kill this mountain, they kill our way of life." ~Debra White Plume