Singing Eagle

I know that no one likes to think about a time when they will not be around.......but it's so important to leave behind a will with instructions about what to do if you are gone.


These past fews years have been really rough going for me and for lots of people I know and it has been made even harder by the absence of a will or specific instructions about final arrangements and estate business.

Please ensure that you have the final say in what happens to you and to the estate you worked so hard to build. By leaving your instructions, you ensure that your wishes are carried out.

NDNKIDZ

goot thread singing eagle.. I am going thru this exact same thing since my mother passed 3 weeks ago.... she didnt have a will but she had an estate that no one knew about.. and now comes time to split it and its hard to split what you didnt know existed.. LOL so remember that things will never replace your family member and memories are so much better than anything else....

nt_inuk

Wise words written singing eagle.
it is a sad reality, but wise for one - to plan ahead, as working thru the loss of a loved one is hard enuff.

dancingbeauty

Great advice singing eagle. My fiance' and his two brothers had to make the decision whether or not to keep their father on life support or end his life. They decided to end his life rather than see him suffer. But that was the hardest decision those boys had to make. Then having to deal with other family members on who was to get what even on the day they decided to pull the plug. In times of sorrow I've seen people get very ugly when there are not the proper papers detailing how the desceased would like their estate handled. I'm 23 yrs. of age and don't have much to give if I were to leave this earth right now. But I do have my will and final wishes in writing. So my family won't go through what my fiance' went through.

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