04-25-2005, 12:02 PM
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~ElMo LoVeZ yOu~
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Washington in a place called "Yakima"
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help or advice
hey since i made this i have a problem any-ways. ok there is this one guy who is 15 and im only 13[almost 14] but first he went out with my freind and they turned out to be cousins and then he went out with my best freind and since my freind and best freind are cousins they found out they were cousins too and then with my other freind broke for some differ reason and then went out with my cousin and we are close and broke with each other but then he asked me out and i said no in a while i said yes but that very same day i told i would to be freinds and he said he respects that we still are but i told him i have a boyfreind [i lied] and then a while later he asked if we can mess aruond a lil bit i said maybe but then i said yeah but we have not seen each other and then later on he said that we can't [which we never "messed around" with each other]. because now he has a chic. now i need help!
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04-25-2005, 03:23 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: In front of my puter...in VA.
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Hi elmogurl, I am glad you wrote this like I asked you too. I am sure that there are plenty of women and young ladies (maybe even a male or two...) on this site that you can talk to and that want to help. Just be sure and stay in contact with us on this thread, otherwise people may feel unapreceiated. Ya Know?
I am not exactly sure of what you need help with. I mean... Do you really like this guy or something, is that the problem? Are you fighting with your cousins? Why did you tell him you had a boyfriend if you like him? Are you scared? It sounds like you may be upset that he has a new girlfriend. and also... You are so young. I can see that it is very personal for you but if you really want help, we got to know what you need help with. Maybe knowing that we want to help you when your family won't will allow you to give out a little more information on your problem. Ok? So let's go ladies... let's show this young one some support! Nothin but love lil sister, ~Pathwalker~
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04-25-2005, 06:46 PM
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**KB Supporter**
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Social Circle, Georgia
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Hey elmogurl, I'm lil wolf. I can't help with your problem ( I'm sorry about that) I'm not good with that sort of thing. My girls are grown now and I don't know how I made it through their teenage years.. But, I did give you a green bead! Hope you get it all figured it out soon!
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04-25-2005, 08:44 PM
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ElleC
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Clarkston, WA
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You are a very young girl, when i was your age I went through the same situation. But me and my friends (cousins) made this pact not to mess with anyone's old boyfriend. BUt I left and then found out that my cousin hooked up with my old boyfriend, I didn't care because I had a boyfriend. But she hooked up with another guy so she wanted to keep this my old boyfriend away from her. So I talked to him, it was harmless. But she got jealous, and quit talking to me and it has been about eight years since I talked to her. Things seem just crazy at your age.
I see that you lied to him that you had a boyfriend, she might have lied to you about having a girlfriend there is no way telling if he really wanted to be with you or just be friends with benefits. I think that if you like him, then tell him, and if he is reoccupied then let it go. Maybe time will be on your side later on.... |
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04-25-2005, 09:27 PM
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Cloud Dancer
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Heaven
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*sigh* young love hehe.... soo confusing..
All i can really say is just be honest in what you do.. dont get caught up in the games most young people play ( I know... easier said than done at your age). Above ALL.. be true to yourself. |
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04-27-2005, 03:31 PM
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Senior Dancer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Saskatchewan{swift flowing}
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Relative Humidity!
First of all my daughter is 10 and she has no boyfriend.
She thinks that her career should come first before her sexlife? or is this puppylove you are talking about? Anyway I would set your mind and heart straight before you give your life away without giving yourself a chance to become a Olympic athlete/Champion powwow dancer/Famous recording artist/Model etc...etc...etc... I HAVE SPOKEN! |
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04-28-2005, 05:14 PM
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good advice... be true to your self... follow ur heart. a relationship at any age is not good if based upon lies. if there are head games to be played it wont last. you will always be wondering if lies are being said. one thing I can say from long ago experience. most guys are just dogs. dont want to offend anyone, but alot of guys are. my first love, puppylove, first crush whatever you call that love at 14 - at the time the love of my life and he was the only on I wanted to have in my life--- was hard to get over, but he played me, 2 of my cousins, all throu out the school year. we decided to leave himout of our lives, he was not worth loosing each other. family is better then a man. we are still close, and he is a 32 year old, drunk on the street, glad none of us stayed with him....lol. anyhow follow ur heart and be true to youself... come on ladies give some adivce to a young lady, you rember what its like to be a teenager in love and thinking your in love...rember how hard that is/was. |
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04-28-2005, 07:42 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2005
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04-29-2005, 03:50 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Earth
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Hey gurlie ok first of all u are only 13 ?? that is way to young to be thinking about boys let alone date 'em....go play have fun !!! guys are jerks and he seems to be one
you're gonna like many more guys in your lifetime so dont get stuck on this one!!! never "mess around" with a dude or be friends with benefits cause it doesn't work... stay strong...stay true to yourself...enjoy life... |
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