How Do You Tell if a Woman is Cheating on Her Husband or Boyfriend?

**Ta'neeszahnii Techno** · 07-23-2004, 08:43 PM

QUESTION: How Do You Tell if a Woman is Cheating on Her Husband or Boyfriend? -Anonymous, Shiprock

Forget the roses and diamond rings: those are for white women. If your Navajo lady is sporting a new concho belt, turquoise earings, and they’re not from you, you have your answer.

If she’s two-timing you, your lady will start turning down your invitations, claiming she’s too busy with friends, hair appointments, or work to spend time with you. She’ll be less talkative and more distracted but won’t have a convincing explanation when you ask her why. When you want some “action” (when you try), she’ll act uncomfortable and hesitant. When you call her, she’ll sound vaguely disappointed that it’s you.

Is she happy and glowing and giggly, yet not directing any of that positive energy toward you? Then that source might be another man. As in the last question, look for hickey’s that weren’t from you. Don’t be too surprised if you run into me if she’s loving too much.

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**jdazmum** · 07-25-2004, 10:57 PM

I got one comment, I do all those things, but I'm not cheating on my husband, what do you say to that? I love my baby with all my heart and soul, but sometimes marriage isn't all roses and diamonds. I got those already and now the reality starts: bills, mortgage, children, school, PTA, clubs, sports, funraising, work(I'm required to leave my family, sometimes days, sometimes weeks), BUT IT GETS TIRING and making love can be last on the list after a long day at work.

I'm waiting for 50 to comment, I know he's got something to add......................

**50cal** · 07-26-2004, 10:39 AM

heck no, it's not about roses and diamonds!!! It's about turn off the X-box and come to bed or turn down the stereo, you're too loud! LOL.....

Techno, also if she has this daydreaming look about her when you "try" to talk to her.....or when issues need to be discussed, they shrug it off and act uninterested.....

**BurBz** · 07-26-2004, 04:18 PM

dang...50 and ET4..you all should think about marriage counseling!!! :p jk..

awwww you alls are still in love....just toot...

welll 50..the reason being we shrug off and act uninterested is because its not important at all... :man: ..like talking about a stupid new game for the x-box!!! :man:

**50cal** · 07-26-2004, 07:33 PM

It's not stupid!!!! *whoomph* LOL....

**Ta'neeszahnii Techno** · 07-26-2004, 08:02 PM

You wonder why its called an "x-box".

**50cal** · 07-26-2004, 08:13 PM

LOL! Very funny Techno, you're suppose to back me up on this.....LOL

Ojipelodoba · 07-26-2004, 09:38 PM

I always thought the woman next door was cheatin, cuz 3 times a week I see a naked stranger hanging out the second story window about midnite!!!!

owleyes · 07-26-2004, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Ojipelodoba

I always thought the woman next door was cheatin, cuz 3 times a week I see a naked stranger hanging out the second story window about midnite!!!!

My smilies aren't workin'! ROFLMFAO!!!!

**50cal** · 07-27-2004, 02:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ojipelodoba

I always thought the woman next door was cheatin, cuz 3 times a week I see a naked stranger hanging out the second story window about midnite!!!!

You sure that wasn't you??? LMAO!! JK.........

**CandaePrincess** · 07-27-2004, 10:16 AM

I was always told that no matter how tired you are...if one of you wants to have a romp....that you should do it. Suck it up.....go do a few jumpin jacks, splash water on the face...something. But when ya start putting those needs on the back burner, you're going to feel the repercussions of that later on. That's why no matter how tired my husband or I am....if either of us wants some "quality" time together...we just go to bed earlier and go to sleep later. :Chatter
Just my two cents! :) (I'm not a liscensed therapist. *L*WHAY!)

**jdazmum** · 07-28-2004, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by 50calNDN

heck no, it's not about roses and diamonds!!! It's about turn off the X-box and come to bed or turn down the stereo, you're too loud! LOL.....

Techno, also if she has this daydreaming look about her when you "try" to talk to her.....or when issues need to be discussed, they shrug it off and act uninterested.....

HOLD ON, LET ME STRAIGHTEN THIS GUY OUT..............pow! pow! pow!................nah kidding, but it's not fair to compete with the XBox. Besides I take care of babies everyday at work, so I have to come home and regulate............ladies you know what I mean???

Love you babe(50)...................don't be mad (Picture Small's chubby face smiling at you?)

07-23-2004, 08:43 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ta'neeszahnii Techno Hodiitsa'go Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Tsézhintah, AZ Posts: 6,309	How Do You Tell if a Woman is Cheating on Her Husband or Boyfriend? QUESTION: How Do You Tell if a Woman is Cheating on Her Husband or Boyfriend? -Anonymous, Shiprock Forget the roses and diamond rings: those are for white women. If your Navajo lady is sporting a new concho belt, turquoise earings, and they’re not from you, you have your answer. If she’s two-timing you, your lady will start turning down your invitations, claiming she’s too busy with friends, hair appointments, or work to spend time with you. She’ll be less talkative and more distracted but won’t have a convincing explanation when you ask her why. When you want some “action” (when you try), she’ll act uncomfortable and hesitant. When you call her, she’ll sound vaguely disappointed that it’s you. Is she happy and glowing and giggly, yet not directing any of that positive energy toward you? Then that source might be another man. As in the last question, look for hickey’s that weren’t from you. Don’t be too surprised if you run into me if she’s loving too much. Have a question for the doctor? Email It. Kokopelli@shiprocktoday.com

07-25-2004, 10:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
jdazmum lil of this lil of that Join Date: May 2004 Location: Always on the move Posts: 1,167	Funny! I got one comment, I do all those things, but I'm not cheating on my husband, what do you say to that? I love my baby with all my heart and soul, but sometimes marriage isn't all roses and diamonds. I got those already and now the reality starts: bills, mortgage, children, school, PTA, clubs, sports, funraising, work(I'm required to leave my family, sometimes days, sometimes weeks), BUT IT GETS TIRING and making love can be last on the list after a long day at work. I'm waiting for 50 to comment, I know he's got something to add......................

07-26-2004, 10:39 AM	#3 (permalink)
50cal Natural Born Killer...... Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Stroking the hair and blowing in the ear of the sexy woman sitting on the couch who owns the Big Blue House on da Hill.... Posts: 5,717	heck no, it's not about roses and diamonds!!! It's about turn off the X-box and come to bed or turn down the stereo, you're too loud! LOL..... Techno, also if she has this daydreaming look about her when you "try" to talk to her.....or when issues need to be discussed, they shrug it off and act uninterested..... __________________

07-26-2004, 04:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
BurBz Dineth Hearth Throth Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: az Posts: 13,893	dang...50 and ET4..you all should think about marriage counseling!!! :p jk.. awwww you alls are still in love....just toot... welll 50..the reason being we shrug off and act uninterested is because its not important at all... :man: ..like talking about a stupid new game for the x-box!!! :man: __________________ I'm not mean, you're just a sissy! :Tongue

07-26-2004, 07:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
50cal Natural Born Killer...... Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Stroking the hair and blowing in the ear of the sexy woman sitting on the couch who owns the Big Blue House on da Hill.... Posts: 5,717	It's not stupid!!!! whoomph LOL.... __________________

07-26-2004, 08:02 PM	#6 (permalink)
Ta'neeszahnii Techno Hodiitsa'go Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Tsézhintah, AZ Posts: 6,309	You wonder why its called an "x-box".

07-26-2004, 08:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
50cal Natural Born Killer...... Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Stroking the hair and blowing in the ear of the sexy woman sitting on the couch who owns the Big Blue House on da Hill.... Posts: 5,717	LOL! Very funny Techno, you're suppose to back me up on this.....LOL __________________

07-26-2004, 09:38 PM	#8 (permalink)
Ojipelodoba Junior Dancer Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 186	I always thought the woman next door was cheatin, cuz 3 times a week I see a naked stranger hanging out the second story window about midnite!!!!

07-27-2004, 10:16 AM	#11 (permalink)
CandaePrincess ......................... Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: where it's at Posts: 8,821	I was always told that no matter how tired you are...if one of you wants to have a romp....that you should do it. Suck it up.....go do a few jumpin jacks, splash water on the face...something. But when ya start putting those needs on the back burner, you're going to feel the repercussions of that later on. That's why no matter how tired my husband or I am....if either of us wants some "quality" time together...we just go to bed earlier and go to sleep later. :Chatter Just my two cents! :) (I'm not a liscensed therapist. LWHAY!) __________________ Mussy by birth.....Native by the Grace of God.......