Virginity?

07-15-2003, 03:49 PM

ok are there any people out there who still think that waiting until marriage is best when it comes to sex?

i'm christian yes, but i think that regardless, it just shows that you have respect for yourself and your future life partner. not only that, but so many things in life are controlled by others, this is something only i can controll. even if my mom says "dont have sex" she can't really stop me only i can make that decision. so what do ya'll think? is sex something that people are still waiting on?

The Rat · 07-15-2003, 03:55 PM

Nope...it's that damned Christina Aguilera!

Seriously tho, I actually know a surprising number of people that are waiting it out

biggin2oo6 · 07-15-2003, 03:58 PM

I think waiting for marriage is best, because it says the Bible that if you wait God will bless it.

**NDNQt** · 07-15-2003, 04:26 PM

If you have the willpower to wait then I think that is great. Personally, I wish I had waited (at least longer than I did), I don't think that at 18 I made a good decision and def not a good decision on who it was. But of course, that is one that can't be undone, and you gotta remember that. This is kinda a touchy subject in what to say because you don't want ALL of your business out there on the net.

HighsNLows · 07-15-2003, 09:14 PM

not trying to be a smartaz biggin but where in the bible does it say that? just curious

RainyDaze49 · 07-15-2003, 09:31 PM

What happens if you wait until marraige, on then on your wedding night, the sex is bad?!?! and then your stuck with that person for LIFE?!?!??! :Cry

:devil BWA HA HA HA HA!:devil

JUS Kiddin! I said it once, I'll say it again, Its good to be home!:p

I say, If YOU know your ready, and you can understand the emotional attatchments that come with it, and you can say the word SEX without laughing, and you use protection and you've been with that person long enough to the point where you know that theyre not gonna go tell the whole world about it, and your absolutely sure that thats the person you want your first time to be with, well then....

Wait longer.

Honestly I wish I had. But its not a big ol regret but then at the same time I'm not all proud of the person it was with either. But I did stay with that person for three years. Sex is sex, Booty calls are booty calls, But making love is a totally different experience.

I've only made love ONCE in my life, and it was recently!:)

**~*DopeLilMama*~** · 07-15-2003, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by powwowchic49
What happens if you wait until marraige, on then on your wedding night, the sex is bad?!?! and then your stuck with that person for LIFE?!?!??! :Cry

LOL That's why there's divorce court!!

crazyhorse · 07-15-2003, 09:52 PM

:Angel: hi, well i think that alot of people get married for a
reason. not for love or sex. when they realize that they get
devorce, and go to the next person.:devil

superndngyrl · 07-15-2003, 09:55 PM

i think you should test drive the car before buying it... BUT since BUYING a car is such a huge responsibility, I'm sure you should only test drive the right car not every single car out there. got it? ;)

crazyhorse · 07-15-2003, 10:05 PM

:Angel2 rental car was born, that is kind of like one night stand.

superndngyrl · 07-15-2003, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crazyhorse
:Angel2 rental car was born, that is kind of like one night stand.

so whats a loaner? an affair? LOL

crazyhorse · 07-15-2003, 10:23 PM

lol lol :p now thats funny.

Speedy™ · 07-16-2003, 03:21 AM

Plenty of Rent-A-Wrecks out there too. :Jumping:

**luvs2rodeo** · 07-16-2003, 11:14 AM

...well I checked "only in love"... but it was the only thing closest choice to ...if ya feel the urge, splurge..... jokeing...... :Chatter but I am only human and if my bod says do it.... I do it..... someone stated "so many things are controlled by others" ....but if ya stick to the words of a bible..... isnt that being controlled by a book....? ...... It's great that more people are virgins..... specially in this day of ages..... just everyone needs to know thir limits I reckon..... now that I am older and wiser... :Angel: ..... I have changed my lifestyle and consider myself a born again virgin.... :p

View Poll Results: Is it important to wait?
Yes-no sex until marriage	62	30.69%
No-sex anytime with however many people you can get wit	21	10.40%
Only if you're in love	104	51.49%
I dont have sex at all ;)	15	7.43%
Voters: 202. You may not vote on this poll

07-15-2003, 03:49 PM	#1 (permalink)
LumbeeTurtle Guest Posts: n/a	Virginity? ok are there any people out there who still think that waiting until marriage is best when it comes to sex? i'm christian yes, but i think that regardless, it just shows that you have respect for yourself and your future life partner. not only that, but so many things in life are controlled by others, this is something only i can controll. even if my mom says "dont have sex" she can't really stop me only i can make that decision. so what do ya'll think? is sex something that people are still waiting on?

07-15-2003, 03:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
The Rat WE ARE MAGNUS THE AMPLE Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: All over your face Posts: 271	Nope...it's that damned Christina Aguilera! Seriously tho, I actually know a surprising number of people that are waiting it out __________________ This is the worst signature ever.

07-15-2003, 04:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
NDNQt PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Aylett, VA Posts: 1,068	If you have the willpower to wait then I think that is great. Personally, I wish I had waited (at least longer than I did), I don't think that at 18 I made a good decision and def not a good decision on who it was. But of course, that is one that can't be undone, and you gotta remember that. This is kinda a touchy subject in what to say because you don't want ALL of your business out there on the net. __________________ Becky B.

07-15-2003, 09:31 PM	#6 (permalink)
RainyDaze49 ~Smile 4 me~ Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: The Great Turtle Island Yo! Posts: 997	What happens if you wait until marraige, on then on your wedding night, the sex is bad?!?! and then your stuck with that person for LIFE?!?!??! :Cry :devil BWA HA HA HA HA!:devil JUS Kiddin! I said it once, I'll say it again, Its good to be home!:p I say, If YOU know your ready, and you can understand the emotional attatchments that come with it, and you can say the word SEX without laughing, and you use protection and you've been with that person long enough to the point where you know that theyre not gonna go tell the whole world about it, and your absolutely sure that thats the person you want your first time to be with, well then.... Wait longer. Honestly I wish I had. But its not a big ol regret but then at the same time I'm not all proud of the person it was with either. But I did stay with that person for three years. Sex is sex, Booty calls are booty calls, But making love is a totally different experience. I've only made love ONCE in my life, and it was recently!:) __________________ ..::First ever 2002-2003 Powwows.com Princess::.. ~~~* The original POWWOWCHIC49 ~~~ ~JINGLE IT~*

07-15-2003, 03:58 PM	#3 (permalink)
biggin2oo6 Pow Wow Visitor Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5	I think waiting for marriage is best, because it says the Bible that if you wait God will bless it.

07-15-2003, 09:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
HighsNLows Tiny Tot Dancer Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: this way, that way Posts: 56	not trying to be a smartaz biggin but where in the bible does it say that? just curious

07-15-2003, 09:52 PM	#8 (permalink)
crazyhorse Tiny Tot Dancer Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: annandale va Posts: 36	:Angel: hi, well i think that alot of people get married for a reason. not for love or sex. when they realize that they get devorce, and go to the next person.:devil

07-15-2003, 09:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
superndngyrl two little indians Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: in front of the computer Posts: 4,232	i think you should test drive the car before buying it... BUT since BUYING a car is such a huge responsibility, I'm sure you should only test drive the right car not every single car out there. got it? ;) __________________ The only time its too late to start dancing is when you're dead.

07-15-2003, 10:05 PM	#10 (permalink)
crazyhorse Tiny Tot Dancer Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: annandale va Posts: 36	:Angel2 rental car was born, that is kind of like one night stand.

07-15-2003, 10:23 PM	#12 (permalink)
crazyhorse Tiny Tot Dancer Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: annandale va Posts: 36	lol lol :p now thats funny.

07-16-2003, 03:21 AM	#13 (permalink)
Speedy™ THE HIPPIE KILLER Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Beantown beeeyotch!!! Posts: 298	Plenty of Rent-A-Wrecks out there too. :Jumping: __________________ "Guns don't kill people. I kill people."

07-16-2003, 11:14 AM	#14 (permalink)
luvs2rodeo PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 1,154	...well I checked "only in love"... but it was the only thing closest choice to ...if ya feel the urge, splurge..... jokeing...... :Chatter but I am only human and if my bod says do it.... I do it..... someone stated "so many things are controlled by others" ....but if ya stick to the words of a bible..... isnt that being controlled by a book....? ...... It's great that more people are virgins..... specially in this day of ages..... just everyone needs to know thir limits I reckon..... now that I am older and wiser... :Angel: ..... I have changed my lifestyle and consider myself a born again virgin.... :p __________________ Never squat naked in spurs