Virginity? - Page 8

Blackbear · 01-11-2006, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ndngirl70

I think it depends on your age and situation too. When I was in my 20's and still with my husband, I really didn't want anything to do with it. Now I'm 30 and single and that whole sexually peak thing is happening. I feel like a teenage boy!

Its that bodily drive to have another baby before them eggs are gone kinda thing... I don't know how many times I have had to hear... Please, no more!! I'm not a young man anymore! LOL!!

MixedIndian · 06-22-2007, 08:16 PM

Well, I'm just gonna say this: If my mom would have waited till she got married (like she wanted to do) I wouldn't be here, then my kids wouldn't be here...nuff said...
Sometimes you just have to make a decision and hope it's the best one. Life isn't about sitting around and waiting, it's about living.

Peace

MixedIndian · 06-22-2007, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by buckskin pantyhose

Well i know this is gonna drive sum of you insane & make you light a candle at church cuz i even had the nerve to "go there" but how do you know it wasn't just a form of rule to control the masses? Just like everything else that went hand in hand w/Church & state? To me it's like conformity....to make people follow order....anyway

I didn't like any of the choices because they're all bias so i picked NO- because i don't think people should have to wait because the bible says so....i think they should wait because they want to & i also think they should have sex w/as many people as they want to. You live & learn from your own experiences......screw what everyone else thinks cuz at the end of the day you're the one that has to live w/your choices. Like Jammer said "all cars drive different" just depends on your driving skills......

~bux

Precisly!!

**APACHEFIRE** · 06-26-2007, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by LumbeeTurtle

ok are there any people out there who still think that waiting until marriage is best when it comes to sex?

i'm christian yes, but i think that regardless, it just shows that you have respect for yourself and your future life partner. not only that, but so many things in life are controlled by others, this is something only i can controll. even if my mom says "dont have sex" she can't really stop me only i can make that decision. so what do ya'll think? is sex something that people are still waiting on?

i got married at age 17 while still attending high school. he was age 20 and a college man (well, JR. college).how we met is another story. why i married him was because i was raised to be 'a good christian'. i wasnt taught anything about 'sex',marriage,or much of anything else. so it was easy for me to be seduced. since i knew instinctively i was supposed to only do what i did after marriage, i felt i had no choice but to marry him. it was a very bad choice, but i stuck it out for just short of thirty years. it was such a bad relationship, except for my two children which i love with out end. knowing what i do now,about so many health related risks to having sex,and about relationships,and growing up,i say, wait. not until 'you' are married necessarily, but until 'you' as a person has become a totally independant, self supporting mature adult. i know its hard to wait. especially when our bodies at certain ages can betray us. i just know that i wish i had waited because my earlier choice has affected my entire life and how i relate to people.i have also learned that 'sex' is just that. but making love only comes with that very special person your heart,spirit,mind and body can connect with after you have learned to walk alone and survive,on your path of life....

whitewave · 07-09-2007, 04:29 PM

Hey I had to put in my 2 cents since its about sex cause well....I love the stuff! Hehehe
I was raised in a Christian home and until I was in my 3rd yr of high school I planned on staying a virgin till I was married. At that time I decided that was going to be nearly impossible since it was the year 2000 and all and I am in fact quite boy crazy

I did wait for love though. I waited until right after high school graduation and it was the perfect setting with my first serious relationship/true love that lasted almost 5 years. Although we're not even friends now, I still appreciate that he went the extra mile to make it something I would NEVER regret.
I'll tell ya though....after 5 years with the same guy....all that time I thought it was great.....lol since then I learned just how much I'd been missin out aaaaaay! Turns out that it wasnt any good at all hhahahaha.

I still say dont be hoin yourself out or nothin. Some people like meaningless sex...thats fine for them....me I like to make love.

But on a serious tip...for the younger girls especially:
BE CAREFUL!!!!! Men can be some sneaky mofos...especially when they tryin to get the nana. Just cause they say they love you does NOT mean they do....and dont forget....
MAKE EM WORK FOR IT!!!!!!
There's my 2 cents...man my mom would have a frickin heart attack.

**APACHEFIRE** · 07-09-2007, 07:12 PM

There's my 2 cents...man my mom would have a frickin heart attack.

hey, im not your mom, (at least i better NOT be!) but im having a frickin heart attack! sheesh! *laffs*

whitewave · 07-09-2007, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by APACHEFIRE

There's my 2 cents...man my mom would have a frickin heart attack.

hey, im not your mom, (at least i better NOT be!) but im having a frickin heart attack! sheesh! *laffs*

hehe sorry bout that...got carried away?

View Poll Results: Is it important to wait?
Yes-no sex until marriage	62	30.69%
No-sex anytime with however many people you can get wit	21	10.40%
Only if you're in love	104	51.49%
I dont have sex at all ;)	15	7.43%
Voters: 202. You may not vote on this poll

06-22-2007, 08:16 PM	#142 (permalink)
MixedIndian Reddish-Brown Kid Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Northwest Indiana Posts: 149	Well, I'm just gonna say this: If my mom would have waited till she got married (like she wanted to do) I wouldn't be here, then my kids wouldn't be here...nuff said... Sometimes you just have to make a decision and hope it's the best one. Life isn't about sitting around and waiting, it's about living. Peace __________________ Be beautiful, be proud.

07-09-2007, 04:29 PM	#145 (permalink)
whitewave Student, always learning Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Californication Posts: 1,337	had to put in my 2 cents.... Hey I had to put in my 2 cents since its about sex cause well....I love the stuff! Hehehe I was raised in a Christian home and until I was in my 3rd yr of high school I planned on staying a virgin till I was married. At that time I decided that was going to be nearly impossible since it was the year 2000 and all and I am in fact quite boy crazy I did wait for love though. I waited until right after high school graduation and it was the perfect setting with my first serious relationship/true love that lasted almost 5 years. Although we're not even friends now, I still appreciate that he went the extra mile to make it something I would NEVER regret. I'll tell ya though....after 5 years with the same guy....all that time I thought it was great.....lol since then I learned just how much I'd been missin out aaaaaay! Turns out that it wasnt any good at all hhahahaha. I still say dont be hoin yourself out or nothin. Some people like meaningless sex...thats fine for them....me I like to make love. But on a serious tip...for the younger girls especially: BE CAREFUL!!!!! Men can be some sneaky mofos...especially when they tryin to get the nana. Just cause they say they love you does NOT mean they do....and dont forget.... MAKE EM WORK FOR IT!!!!!! There's my 2 cents...man my mom would have a frickin heart attack. __________________ "To ignore injustice is to allow it" Peace, Love, and many blessings, White Wave

07-09-2007, 07:12 PM	#146 (permalink)
APACHEFIRE LIVE A GOOD DAY! Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: still in the state of laughter. Posts: 2,876 Blog Entries: 16	There's my 2 cents...man my mom would have a frickin heart attack. hey, im not your mom, (at least i better NOT be!) but im having a frickin heart attack! sheesh! laffs __________________ _________________ PULL UP A ROCK WHILE I MAKE YOU SOME FRYBREAD....

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