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View Poll Results: Is it important to wait?
Yes-no sex until marriage 62 30.69%
No-sex anytime with however many people you can get wit 21 10.40%
Only if you're in love 104 51.49%
I dont have sex at all ;) 15 7.43%
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Old 07-16-2003, 02:19 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old 07-16-2003, 04:09 PM   #22 (permalink)
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If your moral or religious upbringing denounces premarital sex, then abstinence is understandable and honorable. But for freaks like me who have neither restriction or inhibition, life is way too short not to get laid. ALOT. Just gotta be careful and take the necessary precautions. Every time.
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Old 07-16-2003, 10:33 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Hollllay!.....HAHAAAAAAAAAA....i guess i just go along with all y'allz personal preferance on this one....*L* thoes of you that wait..RIGHT ON! Thoes of you who can't wait...GO GET'EM...*L* somethin...i am just tryna make more posts for a better AVITAR!...lmao..i hate these flags....looks like them brest cancer awareness thingies except they are not PINK....lmao....
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Old 07-17-2003, 04:17 PM   #24 (permalink)
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If your moral or religious upbringing denounces premarital sex, then abstinence is understandable and honorable. But for freaks like me who have neither restriction or inhibition, life is way too short not to get laid. ALOT. Just gotta be careful and take the necessary precautions. Every time.

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Old 07-17-2003, 05:14 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I was married the first time at 19, and I was a virgin! I was taught that sex period, was something filthy unless it was between man and wife ......

A divorce later, and twenty one years of marriage to this husband has taught me, that it doesn't matter if you are married or not! It's whether you and your partner are ready for the responsibility that goes with being together, sex or no sex!!

After watching a friend of my daughter go through a pregnancy at 13 years old, my daughter and I talk alot about marriage and sex. I just told her that responsibility comes first, and farmost!! Then the rest will follow, only marry for the right reasons, and because you are pregnant isn't one of them! Wanting to be together the rest of your lives is! Pregnancy will come when it comes!

How old to have sex? Well that too comes with the wisdom of your matturity! If you are so immature that you can't wait for the right person at the right time, then live with what happens .... that sounds harsh but it's true!

Against the Bible? Define that!! The Bible talks about marriage and sacrement, but who decides you are married? Having some man say so in a crowd of people? Who gave that person the authority to marry any couple? Marriage is a peice of paper period!! You can be married, with no one saying it but YOU, The Lord KNOWS what is in your hearts! That is what you will be judged by!

I try to teach my daughter that sex without love is just that, sex. Love is what makes the sex wonderful! If you don't honestly love a person then it's nothing more than lust, and you will be sorry in the morning! Don't just wait to have sex, hold out for love too!

That and if she doesn't want to get pregnant, then I'd advise her NOT to do anything that can get her in that condition! All the Birth Control in the world isn't going to help NONE of them are 100% except ABSTINENCE!!!

Prime example of that is that my cousin had a vasectomy, his wife had her tubes tied and she STILL got pregnant! They won both suits against both Dr's and their daughter's education was paid clear up to her Doctorate's Degree in Medicine!
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What I would like to know is the age of those guys and gals answering this poll... I read alot of idealistic, right wing, parental influence stuff--not knockin' it but it would be interesting to know the ages of respondents.

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Waiting til marriage and it will be blessed? Love is what makes sex wonderful? Jeez ya'll were sheltered growing up ennit. Don't make no difference when ya do it or wether love is there or not. Feellings all the same! Granted each "car" drives differently, still nothings different within the whole act or what not. Only difference with sex if love is involved is that you still like the person after its over!
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Old 07-18-2003, 07:42 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Old 07-18-2003, 07:52 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Woiuldn't want someone takin' a test drive that couldn't handle the consequences, lr with someone who couldn't make a decision like that because they didn't understand what they were doing, but between 2 people who know what they doing and what they want then test drive by all means.
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Old 07-19-2003, 10:51 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Against the Bible? Define that!! The Bible talks about marriage and sacrement, but who decides you are married? Having some man say so in a crowd of people? Who gave that person the authority to marry any couple? Marriage is a peice of paper period!! You can be married, with no one saying it but YOU, The Lord KNOWS what is in your hearts! That is what you will be judged by!


AMEN to this... lol... u r so right about marriage is just a piece of paper.. my fiance and I are STILL not married to this day, but he calls me his wife/companion when introducing me to others and we have 2 kids now... even though I do not attend any type of church, my beliefs are mainly traditional and as well as following the teachings of the Native American Church

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Old 07-21-2003, 02:27 AM   #31 (permalink)
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somebody once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free........
lol, surprised i havent read that in here yet.


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but seriously, i read responses about christiaity...... but people should remember that many tribes here in the americas did.......(some in south america, and a couple in north america still do) have ceremonial virginal weddings where both man and woman are. and they differ from the non-virgin ceremonial weddings.......... just to remind those that forgot that part of native history.

but even then in most cases it was a personal decision.

i think that you (male or fem) should wait for atleast a short time........... until u know what your looking for, if not in a life partner than atleast in a compatible person.

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Old 07-21-2003, 09:36 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Re: RIGHT ON SISTA!!!

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AMEN to this... lol... u r so right about marriage is just a piece of paper.. my fiance and I are STILL not married to this day, but he calls me his wife/companion when introducing me to others and we have 2 kids now... even though I do not attend any type of church, my beliefs are mainly traditional and as well as following the teachings of the Native American Church

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do you attend poyote meetings? my dad was part of the NAC
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any ways having sex requires brain power, just make the right
decision. and don't like your you know what take over.
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Old 07-23-2003, 01:05 PM   #33 (permalink)
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How long have you lived together? Check the laws in your State, if you are in the U.S. The "Common Law" statute mandates that you are legally a man's wife, and legally entitled to the benefits and/or support, after living together for X amount of years. In some places it is 10 years; but it differs. Check it out!
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....common law..... does that mean later on if things dont work out either one can take them to court for 1/2 of property....?:( .....
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Old 07-25-2003, 02:50 PM   #35 (permalink)
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....well then its confirmed....NO common laws for me either...... went thru that with a real marriage..... :Chatter
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