cheaters

any wasys · 06-16-2004, 08:17 PM

what do you do when your man or woman cheats on you??
what about if your married? or you have kids...and you are still in love with them?? do you leave or stay??

**Miss_Nish** · 06-16-2004, 08:50 PM

Whenever I do get shacked up... I hope I'll never have to answer this question(s)...

:Shocked :dontknow: :eyes116:

Pleeze... juss let me have my "perfect relationship" dream. :p

**Kool Breeze** · 06-16-2004, 08:55 PM

Eye for an eye...

06-16-2004, 08:59 PM

chit leave the damn ba$$-tard i aint gonna stay so he can do it somemore an if i was married to the a$$wad and he was seeing someone else and they where to get married an chit there would b no divorce aslong as hes married to me he cant marry her .....LMAO

**Miss_Nish** · 06-16-2004, 09:03 PM

I know this woman...who's man is always cheating on her. BUT he begs her to come back.. :dontknow: Sooo... she goes back... on pay day. LOL... spends all his cash.. and usually by then they break up again.... on and off.. on and off...

like...sooo blu cantrell

Hey Ladies
When your man ganna get buckwild
Just go back and Hit 'Em Up Style
Get your hands on his cash
And spend it to the last dime
For all the hard times

geeeeeeeeez...

**WocusWoman** · 06-16-2004, 10:24 PM

I've been married awhile; but I'll tell you what, I wouldn't think twice about kicking him to the curb for good if he ever hurt me like that.

**ojibwaysweetie** · 06-16-2004, 10:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bl@ckfoothoney

chit leave the damn ba$$-tard i aint gonna stay so he can do it somemore an if i was married to the a$$wad and he was seeing someone else and they where to get married an chit there would b no divorce aslong as hes married to me he cant marry her .....LMAO

*LMAO @ blkfthoney!

I like that word "a$$wad". :lol2:

**Kool Breeze** · 06-17-2004, 12:53 AM

You see that Kobe's wife aint going no where. She aint stupid.

nativemama571 · 06-17-2004, 02:27 AM

Just don't "stay for the kids", heard that too many times growing up !?! Didn't do any good, except make it seem okay for them to do it.

Singing Otter · 06-17-2004, 02:45 AM

Honestly? Pray.

Pray for discernment between love, lust, and the need to belong to someone. Pray for the innocents that have to cope with folks not thinking. Pray for strength to heal emotionally and mentally. Pray that you don't pick up something and open up a righteous can of whoop azz. hehehe :p

Homalosa · 06-17-2004, 02:53 AM

ditto what Singing Otter said.

I often wonder.......

If our "parts" were portable, would they even come home at all? No. they'd show them off to their friends like chrome wheels and trinkets on their trucks!

although if they were portable, we ladies cut put his up in a jar until needed.

Blackbear · 06-17-2004, 03:17 AM

if you are gonna pray you don't hit him.. hide the cast iron frying pan too....:D

Mato Winyan · 06-17-2004, 05:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Homalosa

ditto what Singing Otter said.

I often wonder.......

If our "parts" were portable, would they even come home at all? No. they'd show them off to their friends like chrome wheels and trinkets on their trucks!

although if they were portable, we ladies cut put his up in a jar until needed.

:rofl2: Just had the mental image.. and the rhyme to go with it.. Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled ... well you get the idea. :Tongue

~Journey~ · 06-17-2004, 08:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mato Winyan

:rofl2: Just had the mental image.. and the rhyme to go with it.. Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled ... well you get the idea. :Tongue

giggles @ Mato... that is a whole nother can of "worms"...LOL

Seriously sweetie, sounds like you've been hurt! I am sorry!
Once a cheat always a cheat!
Let me ask you, can you truely Love someone you don't trust!

If you are married with kids, make a plan, build a support system, and kick that peckerhead to the curb...

Also, what Singing Otter said, Pray
and Pray you don't pull a Lorena Bobbit on his A~~ or pickle!

Cut your losses and move on sweetie, Life is too short to be miserable!

**CandaePrincess** · 06-17-2004, 11:41 AM

I've had a couple of guys cheat on me, and I just left em. I mean, life's too short to live like that! Now I'm happy and glad I set my sights on something better!!!
My friends used to ask how I was so strong that I could just leave someone I cared about. I told them....b/c I care about myself more. I mean, not only is it hard on the heart.....you don't know what kind of nasty crap they might be bringing home to give you. YUCK! So leaving them is totally a great thing to do. Now if you're married....woo
hooooo that's a different story. Never been married so I can't say. I'll leave that up to someone with experience or who knows someone's who been there!
:)

06-16-2004, 08:17 PM	#1 (permalink)
any wasys Pow Wow Visitor Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 14	cheaters what do you do when your man or woman cheats on you?? what about if your married? or you have kids...and you are still in love with them?? do you leave or stay??

06-16-2004, 08:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
Miss_Nish PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Anishnabe Akii Posts: 1,024	Whenever I do get shacked up... I hope I'll never have to answer this question(s)... :Shocked :dontknow: :eyes116: Pleeze... juss let me have my "perfect relationship" dream. :p __________________ ~* Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you're up to *~

06-16-2004, 08:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
bl@ckfoothoney Guest Posts: n/a	chit leave the damn ba$$-tard i aint gonna stay so he can do it somemore an if i was married to the a$$wad and he was seeing someone else and they where to get married an chit there would b no divorce aslong as hes married to me he cant marry her .....LMAO Last edited by bl@ckfoothoney; 06-16-2004 at 09:11 PM.

06-16-2004, 09:03 PM	#5 (permalink)
Miss_Nish PowWows.com Addicts Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Anishnabe Akii Posts: 1,024	I know this woman...who's man is always cheating on her. BUT he begs her to come back.. :dontknow: Sooo... she goes back... on pay day. LOL... spends all his cash.. and usually by then they break up again.... on and off.. on and off... like...sooo blu cantrell Hey Ladies When your man ganna get buckwild Just go back and Hit 'Em Up Style Get your hands on his cash And spend it to the last dime For all the hard times geeeeeeeeez... __________________ ~* Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you're up to *~

06-17-2004, 02:27 AM	#9 (permalink)
nativemama571 Pow Wow Visitor Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: cali Posts: 6	what to do? Just don't "stay for the kids", heard that too many times growing up !?! Didn't do any good, except make it seem okay for them to do it.

06-16-2004, 08:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
Kool Breeze WWW.CYBERREZ.COM Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 1,109	Eye for an eye...

06-16-2004, 10:24 PM	#6 (permalink)
WocusWoman N8tiffUmatillaMAMA Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Interior Alaska Posts: 2,727	I've been married awhile; but I'll tell you what, I wouldn't think twice about kicking him to the curb for good if he ever hurt me like that.

06-17-2004, 12:53 AM	#8 (permalink)
Kool Breeze WWW.CYBERREZ.COM Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 1,109	You see that Kobe's wife aint going no where. She aint stupid.

06-17-2004, 02:45 AM	#10 (permalink)
Singing Otter Gotz ta be me! Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: North Carolina Posts: 3,391 Blog Entries: 1	Honestly? Pray. Pray for discernment between love, lust, and the need to belong to someone. Pray for the innocents that have to cope with folks not thinking. Pray for strength to heal emotionally and mentally. Pray that you don't pick up something and open up a righteous can of whoop azz. hehehe :p __________________ Cowboy wisdom: A thong is like a barb wire fence, it protects the property without blocking the view.

06-17-2004, 02:53 AM	#11 (permalink)
Homalosa Choc-lack-chick! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Dallas, Texas (where da powwows at?) Posts: 1,586	ditto what Singing Otter said. I often wonder....... If our "parts" were portable, would they even come home at all? No. they'd show them off to their friends like chrome wheels and trinkets on their trucks! although if they were portable, we ladies cut put his up in a jar until needed. __________________ Honor and respect your elders! "Until the lion learns to speak the tales of hunting will always favor the hunter." -K'Naan O-BAM-UH!!!! www.myspace.com/thobackmuzik www.myspace.com/asanicharles

06-17-2004, 03:17 AM	#12 (permalink)
Blackbear Space Cowboy Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Alaska Posts: 9,618	if you are gonna pray you don't hit him.. hide the cast iron frying pan too....:D __________________ Don't worry that it's not good enough for anyone else to hear... just sing, sing a song.

06-17-2004, 11:41 AM	#15 (permalink)
CandaePrincess Go Tera Go!!!! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: where it's at Posts: 9,241	I've had a couple of guys cheat on me, and I just left em. I mean, life's too short to live like that! Now I'm happy and glad I set my sights on something better!!! My friends used to ask how I was so strong that I could just leave someone I cared about. I told them....b/c I care about myself more. I mean, not only is it hard on the heart.....you don't know what kind of nasty crap they might be bringing home to give you. YUCK! So leaving them is totally a great thing to do. Now if you're married....woo hooooo that's a different story. Never been married so I can't say. I'll leave that up to someone with experience or who knows someone's who been there! :) __________________ Mussy by birth.....Native by the Grace of God.......

06-17-2004, 12:28 PM	#16 (permalink)
Azhe'ni Shuut uup..are ya serious Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,338