Originally Posted by nativedancer5

sorry to hear about your loss. my brother and sister in law were killed 4 years ago coming home from one of his fav pow wows and we had talked when our mother passed about when to dance again and decided that the best way to honor her was to dance and remember that we are now dancing for her also. so now i carry or wear something from their outfit everytime I enter the circle and I don't contest anymore for this reason. but this is my families way.